<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Wisdorise English: Suffering Workshop]]></title><description><![CDATA[This section is where my new book is being published gradually — freely and exclusively for founding members. I began writing it during the January 2026 protests in Iran, in days darker than dark, and it will continue to unfold here. The central problem of the text is the cycle of reducing and reproducing suffering. What you read is not a finished work, but the process itself.]]></description><link>https://www.wisdorise.com/s/founding-circle</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!h2hs!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8b7fb24d-c3b2-45cb-8f2d-54310160b2af_450x450.png</url><title>Wisdorise English: Suffering Workshop</title><link>https://www.wisdorise.com/s/founding-circle</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2026 22:00:22 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.wisdorise.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Ally Delshad Tehrani]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[wisdorise@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[wisdorise@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Ally Delshad Tehrani]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Ally Delshad Tehrani]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[wisdorise@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[wisdorise@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Ally Delshad Tehrani]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[Section Six]]></title><description><![CDATA[In the encounter with suffering, what actually occurs is not a simple choice among several possibilities, but movement within patterns that have settled over time in the body, the mind, and relationships.]]></description><link>https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-six</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-six</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ally Delshad Tehrani]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 14:03:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!h2hs!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8b7fb24d-c3b2-45cb-8f2d-54310160b2af_450x450.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the encounter with suffering, what actually occurs is not a simple choice among several possibilities, but movement within patterns that have settled over time in the body, the mind, and relationships. These patterns are not consciously selected. Each was once a response that worked, and it is precisely this effectiveness that stabilized it. Suffering appears, and the familiar path becomes active.</p><p>Sometimes this path leads to silencing. The suffering must remain quiet, postponed, or pushed out of view. Something appears to calm down on the surface, yet what has not been seen returns elsewhere and later, more condensed and harder to recognize.</p><p>Sometimes suffering is projected outward. Inner balance is preserved by attributing it to another&#8212;an individual, a group, an enemy, or even to nature. What cannot be endured within acquires meaning outside, and that meaning justifies the transfer.</p><p>Sometimes the response appears in the form of excess production. Pleasure, consumption, power, or speed are pursued not to be experienced, but to cover over. Movement increases, distance shortens, and exhaustion gradually takes the place of the very suffering that was meant to be neutralized.</p><p>At times the path leads to numbness. Not the elimination of suffering, but a reduction of sensitivity to it. The body and the mind learn to feel less in order to be hurt less. The cost of this learning is the fading of pleasure, meaning, and the capacity for engagement.</p><p>Alongside these, other forms also appear. Hastily produced explanations, meanings that arrive before experience itself, the heroic elevation of suffering, or the attribution of everything to structure, fate, or external forces. All of these are attempts to render bearable a condition from which there is no escape.</p><p>Amid these familiar paths, another possibility also exists. Not as the correct path and not as a prescription, but as a different relation. A relation in which suffering, before being silenced, remains for a moment within the field of attention. Not to be analyzed, not to be interpreted, but simply to be seen in its movement: how it is felt in the body, how it shifts, how it subsides, and from where it returns.</p><p>Care in this sense is neither an inner exercise nor a moral appeal. Care is attentiveness to the path of return. It means that action, if it occurs, occurs with awareness of its transfers and consequences. This relation too is incomplete and guarantees nothing. It merely does not conceal the cycle.</p><p>This text does not aim to eliminate the patterns. The patterns remain. What may change is the moment in which the pattern is seen before it repeats&#8212;the brief interval between the appearance of suffering and the activation of response.</p><p>This pause is neither liberation nor salvation. It is a short interruption within a movement that will continue. What becomes possible in this interruption is not the control of the cycle, but the visibility of it, before it once again repeats itself without name and without sound.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Section Five]]></title><description><![CDATA[After passing through all these scales, the pattern returns to the place where it had been present from the beginning: the human being.]]></description><link>https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-five</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-five</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ally Delshad Tehrani]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2026 14:03:11 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!h2hs!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8b7fb24d-c3b2-45cb-8f2d-54310160b2af_450x450.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After passing through all these scales, the pattern returns to the place where it had been present from the beginning: the human being. Not as an individual separated from the world, but as the point where body, mind, relationship, and the shared lifeworld converge. The change of scale has added nothing to the logic. It has only expanded its field.</p><p>At every level the same process has repeated itself. Suffering appears, a response subsides it, the response stabilizes, and that very stabilization reproduces suffering elsewhere. What changes is only the intensity and the distance of the return. What appears in the body as restlessness becomes instability in the collective and crisis at the planetary scale, yet the mechanism remains the same.</p><p>At this point the desire for correction emerges: the desire to break the cycle and to discover a more appropriate way of confronting suffering. Yet this desire itself, if it turns into an immediate answer, continues the same logic. Every attempt to silence suffering quickly, even when it takes the name of treatment or progress, can become another form of subsiding.</p><p>The issue is not ignorance or the absence of good intentions. The issue is that seeing the pattern requires the suspension of response. Such suspension is uncomfortable because it makes suffering more immediate. For this reason the response usually changes, not the relation to suffering.</p><p>If subsiding and re-pressurizing are seen merely as errors, the question becomes limited to correcting behavior. But if they are seen as a pattern, the question moves toward the idea of a limit. Not a moral limit and not a legal one, but a threshold at which subsiding still supports the continuation of life, and beyond which it begins to intensify suffering itself.</p><p>This threshold is not fixed. It shifts within the body, within relationships, within societies, and across history. What once functioned as endurance later becomes postponement. What once served survival later becomes a source of erosion. Recognizing this boundary is difficult because re-pressurizing usually appears later, farther away, and somewhere else.</p><p>In many situations subsiding is a condition of persistence. No body can feel every pain to its full extent. No collective can bear every tension without mediation. The problem begins when subsiding leaves the status of a temporary condition and becomes habit. Habit carries memory. It repeats itself and detaches from the situation that first produced it.</p><p>At that point re-pressurizing is no longer a secondary consequence; it becomes part of the function itself. Suffering is accepted as a cost and transferred elsewhere&#8212;to a later time, to another body, to a level where it is less visible. It is this displacement that renders the threshold invisible.</p><p>The boundary itself is always shifting. The distance between action and consequence becomes shorter, yet the pattern does not change. Attempts to define it theoretically through numbers or regulations usually arrive too late, because habit has already stabilized.</p><p>From here the question is no longer one of right and wrong. The question becomes the moment when subsiding turns from a response to suffering into an escape from it. A brief and unstable moment that usually passes unseen.</p><p>Returning to the human being is not a return to the beginning, but a return to the question itself. Not in order to find an answer, but to remain within a relation where every immediate response can carry the return of suffering, and every stabilized habit&#8212;even if it began with the reduction of suffering&#8212;may, over time, become the source of new suffering.</p><p>Here there is no final point of rest. The pattern does not end. It can only be seen in the brief moment before it turns into habit&#8212;the short moment in which suffering is present and the response has not yet taken form.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Section Four]]></title><description><![CDATA[What has been observed so far may create the impression that the subsiding and re-pressurizing of suffering operate within the boundaries of the body, relationships, ideology, or war.]]></description><link>https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-four</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-four</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ally Delshad Tehrani]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 14:02:53 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!h2hs!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8b7fb24d-c3b2-45cb-8f2d-54310160b2af_450x450.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What has been observed so far may create the impression that the subsiding and re-pressurizing of suffering operate within the boundaries of the body, relationships, ideology, or war. Yet the pattern does not remain confined to these levels. At a broader scale the same logic reaches the shared lifeworld, where neither an individual nor a single society is the primary field of action, but the earth itself.</p><p>At this level suffering takes the form of more fundamental fears: the fear of scarcity, of biological insecurity, of the unpredictability of the future, and of dependence on an environment that lies beyond human control. The response to this suffering has been the expansion of instruments of control. Nature becomes a field in which subsiding must occur continuously and at an increasing scale.</p><p>Here we are no longer dealing with isolated acts but with patterns that have stabilized over centuries. The extraction of resources, the manipulation of natural cycles, and the growth of consumption have, in the short term, reduced suffering. The world has become more habitable, more secure, and more predictable. Yet this very success has carried re-pressurizing to a level that is no longer local or contained.</p><p>At this scale re-pressurizing appears as catastrophe, not a sudden catastrophe but an accumulated one. The suffering that once returned within bodies and human fields now reappears as ecological imbalance and climatic instability. At this point there is no longer an &#8220;other&#8221; onto which suffering can be displaced. The field of return is the shared lifeworld itself.</p><p>Among all these processes, the most fundamental and decisive example is also the one least recognized as a problem: the reduction of mortality. Medicine and public health have been direct responses to suffering&#8212;responses that are neither abstract nor deniable. Bodies suffer less, life expectancy extends, and human existence becomes safer and more predictable. Subsiding here is real.</p><p>Yet this success, without any conscious decision, has increased the population. A larger population leads to greater consumption&#8212;not out of excess, but out of necessity. Food, water, energy, and infrastructure must be provided at larger scales. From this point the next chain begins. The suffering that had subsided at the level of the body begins to return at the level of the planet.</p><p>To reduce the suffering of hunger, food production intensifies. In the short term security appears; in the long term soil erodes and water is depleted. To supply protein, industrial fishing expands; supply increases while ecosystems collapse. For development and prosperity forests are cut; employment and production emerge while biological cycles are disrupted. To escape cold and darkness fossil fuels are consumed; life becomes easier while the climate grows unstable.</p><p>In all of these cases the point of departure is the same: the reduction of suffering. Each step appears reasonable and every development responds to a genuine need. Yet the accumulation of these reasonable responses produces a pattern that transfers re-pressurizing from the level of everyday life to the level of the planet.</p><p>Even the mass production of entertainment and pleasure can be understood within this framework. A denser life and expanding psychological pressures demand instruments that numb boredom. This subsiding is effective in the short term, yet in the long term it erodes attention and weakens the capacity to endure silence. The pattern returns once more to the level of the mind. What occurs on the planet repeats itself within the collective psyche.</p><p>At this point the earth becomes the final field of the return of suffering. Consequences can no longer be displaced onto distant geographies or deferred to unknown futures. Re-pressurizing now occurs simultaneously with subsiding.</p><p>The decisive point is that none of these stages began with malice. The starting point was the attempt to reduce suffering. Yet immediate subsiding, when the pathways of its return remain unseen, becomes a pattern that operates on a planetary scale.</p><p>What appears now is neither the failure of medicine nor the betrayal of progress, but the continuation of the same simple logic: the immediate reduction of suffering without seeing the routes through which that same suffering returns.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Section Three]]></title><description><![CDATA[Beyond the level of everyday habits, the same pattern of subsiding and re-pressurizing operates through systems of meaning.]]></description><link>https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-three</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-three</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ally Delshad Tehrani]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2026 14:02:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!h2hs!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8b7fb24d-c3b2-45cb-8f2d-54310160b2af_450x450.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beyond the level of everyday habits, the same pattern of subsiding and re-pressurizing operates through systems of meaning. Here we are no longer dealing with scattered individual reactions, but with narratives that from the beginning emerged with the promise of reducing suffering. The suffering of death, uncertainty, injustice, insecurity, and the inability to control the world demanded responses that could render the world livable. Religion, metaphysics, and ideology appear at this point&#8212;not as instruments of domination, but as possibilities of endurance.</p><p>Narrative quiets anxiety. Death is answered with continuity, disorder with cosmic order, injustice with final judgment, and loneliness with belonging. Meaning here acts as a sedative, a condition that allows life to continue. Yet the moment meaning becomes stabilized and settles into institutions and power, its form changes. Meaning is no longer a possibility; it becomes an obligation. Subsiding turns into control.</p><p>At this point suffering does not disappear. It simply shifts. Questioning is subdued in order to preserve certainty. In-group security strengthens while out-group insecurity expands. The calm of some is achieved through the elimination of doubt and the exclusion of others. The suffering that was meant to be contained returns in the form of exclusion, discrimination, and violence.</p><p>The same pattern repeats in ideologies. A promise is made to reduce structural suffering, and in the beginning it appears legitimate. But when ideology becomes identity, doubt turns into threat. Opposition must be silenced in order to preserve cohesion. Subsiding succeeds because an answer exists. Re-pressurizing begins at the same time, because whatever falls outside the answer becomes a new site of suffering.</p><p>At this level, re-pressurizing is no longer incidental. It becomes law, education, and collective memory. Some are calmed because they possess meaning; others suffer because they stand outside it. What sustains this process is precisely the initial success of subsiding. The narrative works, it reduces anxiety, and for that reason its costs remain unseen. Suffering moves farther away, becomes invisible, and is rewritten in the language of justification.</p><p>In many religious systems, homosexuality is defined as a threat to sacred order. This definition simplifies the world, draws boundaries, and lowers anxiety. Yet those very boundaries transform exclusion and elimination into legitimate acts. Fear subsides, and suffering reappears in another body.</p><p>Utopian narratives also emerge from the suffering of loss and historical humiliation. The promise of returning to a sacred land generates hope and makes suffering bearable. But once the ideal becomes an absolute right, the presence of others becomes an illegitimate obstacle. Killing and displacement take on the meaning of restoration. One suffering subsides while another is reproduced on a wider scale.</p><p>In ideologies of eternal salvation, violence acquires a sacred form. Anxiety about death subsides through the promise of paradise, and the elimination of dissent becomes a duty. Violence is not the goal; it is the consequence of preserving inner certainty.</p><p>What makes this process dangerous is its rational appearance. Suffering is redefined as a necessary cost. When the suffering of some is declared the condition for the calm of others, re-pressurizing becomes logic.</p><p>When the process enters the sphere of politics and security, it moves beyond narrative into decision. Here suffering is experienced as collective fear&#8212;a threat that must be contained. States often arise or legitimize themselves through the promise of reducing this fear. Security must be ensured. The enemy must be controlled. Subsiding occurs collectively: fear decreases and order becomes imaginable.</p><p>Yet suffering is not removed. It merely changes geography. The security of one side is stabilized through the insecurity of another. Violence is justified through the language of prevention. What is called peace in one place becomes bombing, sanctions, occupation, or repression elsewhere.</p><p>In the narrative of war, killing is framed as an unavoidable cost. The present of some is sacrificed for the future of others. The same logic repeats: the reduction of suffering here, the production of suffering elsewhere.</p><p>The same pattern appears in domestic politics. The suppression of protest is justified in the name of stability. The anxiety of disorder subsides, while the suffering of prison, exile, and extinguished lives spreads elsewhere. What becomes visible is order; what remains hidden is the human cost of that order.</p><p>At this level, distance becomes decisive. Suffering turns into numbers&#8212;into reports, into statistics. The more abstract it becomes, the more tolerable it appears; and the more tolerable it appears, the easier it becomes to repeat.</p><p>This process rarely begins with malicious intent. The starting point is usually an attempt to reduce suffering. But when the only way to reduce suffering becomes the imposition of suffering on others, violence turns into the instrument that preserves subsiding.</p><p>The pattern is the same as the one observed in the individual body, only now with a wider scope and more irreversible consequences. Subsiding succeeds because it produces a sense of security. And precisely for that reason re-pressurizing continues. Suffering has not been removed. It has been accumulated elsewhere&#8212;and it will return, with the same language, the same justifications, and the same promise of peace.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Section Two]]></title><description><![CDATA[A considerable part of the subsiding of suffering in everyday life occurs not in extreme situations, but in behaviors so ordinary and repetitive that they are no longer noticed.]]></description><link>https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-two</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-two</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ally Delshad Tehrani]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2026 05:46:23 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!h2hs!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8b7fb24d-c3b2-45cb-8f2d-54310160b2af_450x450.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A considerable part of the subsiding of suffering in everyday life occurs not in extreme situations, but in behaviors so ordinary and repetitive that they are no longer noticed. These behaviors do not begin with a clear decision, and they are rarely recognized as reactions to suffering. They are more like routes through which pressure passes.</p><p>Scrolling through social media often begins not in search of something specific, but as a way of distancing oneself from an unpleasant state. Boredom, vague anxiety, or the inability to begin a task recede as one enters the continuous flow of images and information. The mind becomes stimulated and the pressure decreases. This decrease stabilizes the pattern. Returning to the task becomes more difficult, concentration collapses, and dissatisfaction returns in a more diffuse form.</p><p>Remaining for long periods in front of the television is also usually not about watching a particular program, but about quieting thought. Sitting and watching creates a temporary distance from loneliness or fatigue. Gradually lethargy settles into the body, sleep is displaced, and conversation fades. What was supposed to subside in silence begins to seep into the space of relationships.</p><p>Overeating is often not a response to bodily need. Eating creates, for a brief moment, a sense of calm and control. Afterwards heaviness appears, mood shifts, and irritability emerges, eventually transferring into relationships.</p><p>The repeated consumption of pornography follows a similar logic. It offers a quick path for discharging tension. With repetition desire shifts, the body is experienced differently, and emotional distance increases. What was supposed to subside in solitude is reproduced within the relationship.</p><p>Even constant busyness, excessive work, and the uninterrupted filling of time can function in the same way. Pressure feels reduced, yet exhaustion spreads, hidden anger grows, and emotional distance widens.</p><p>In all of these cases the subsiding of suffering genuinely occurs. That is precisely why the pattern is preserved. The issue is not that these behaviors are inherently destructive, but that suffering does not exit the cycle. It simply changes its route. From a point where it was recognizable, it returns in forms that can no longer easily be traced back to their origin.</p><p>Subsiding is a redirection of pressure, and re-pressurizing is the continuation of that same pressure within another field. Suffering neither disappears nor stops; it remains in circulation.</p><p>What sustains this circulation is normalization. The behavior occurs, pressure decreases, and life continues. It is this continuity that renders the re-pressurizing invisible.</p><p>In this condition suffering neither accumulates nor explodes; it disperses. It appears in chronic fatigue, in a reduced capacity to listen, in quickly tiring of relationships, and in a gradual indifference. A change that is felt but cannot easily be attributed to a specific behavior.</p><p>Over time the pattern expands. What was once used to endure a particular pressure becomes the default response to other pressures. The difference between forms of suffering fades, while the reactions remain the same.</p><p>At this point what seemed entirely personal crosses the boundary of the individual. Subsiding occurs at the level of the individual, but re-pressurizing does not remain there. Without declaration and without decision, suffering enters shared fields and continues to circulate through bodies, relationships, and lived spaces.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Section One]]></title><description><![CDATA[In Mental Reality, especially in the chapter &#8220;Bitter and Sweet,&#8221; I approached the nature of suffering and its relation to pleasure from a neuroscientific and philosophical perspective.]]></description><link>https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-one</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.wisdorise.com/p/section-one</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ally Delshad Tehrani]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2026 07:09:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!h2hs!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8b7fb24d-c3b2-45cb-8f2d-54310160b2af_450x450.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In <em><a href="https://delshad.me/en/books/mental-reality/">Mental Reality</a></em>, especially in the chapter &#8220;Bitter and Sweet,&#8221; I approached the nature of suffering and its relation to pleasure from a neuroscientific and philosophical perspective. This text is not a continuation of that path, nor is it meant to redefine the same problem. What matters here is not suffering itself, but the way it is met in everyday life &#8212; what we do when it appears, how a temporary reaction becomes a reliable route, and how that route, through repetition, turns into a stable pattern.</p><p>To see this process, one has to pause on a word that forms the foundation of the text. In English, <em>reducing</em> refers to lowering the intensity of something. When we say we reduce suffering, we are speaking of a decrease in pressure. But with the addition of a single <em>re</em> within the same linguistic field, the meaning turns over. <em>Reproducing</em> no longer speaks of lessening, but of being made again. The same linguistic movement, the same reversal of meaning, takes place in lived experience. We bring suffering down along one path while simultaneously reactivating it along another. Something subsides, yet that very thing continues elsewhere.</p><p>In this text I use two terms: subsiding and re-pressurizing. Subsiding is the moment in which the pressure lessens and the situation appears more bearable. Re-pressurizing is the continuation of that same pressure on another level. These are not two separate stages. In many cases, at the very moment one occurs, the other has already begun. What is felt is the subsiding; what remains imperceptible is the re-pressurizing.</p><p>The examples are not for judging behaviors. Nothing is to be condemned or recommended. They only show how suffering changes its path.</p><p>Someone smokes to reduce pressure. In the moment, tension drops and the body feels regulated. At the same time, the body enters the path of dependency, thresholds shift, and the need for repetition is formed. A suffering has subsided, and at the same time it has been reactivated in the body, in the cost, in the smell that remains in the space, and in the anxieties that follow.</p><p>Someone swallows their anger so that relational tension does not rise. On the surface, calm is preserved. If this pattern is repeated, bitterness, coldness, and sudden eruptions appear through other routes. The opposite follows the same logic. Aggression lowers the pressure in the moment and distributes other sufferings across bodies and relationships. Two opposing reactions, a single mechanism.</p><p>Infidelity, used to fill an inner void, removes suffering from one point and places it in another. Trust disappears, the relationship collapses, and this distrust continues into later relations. Suffering does not stop; only its field changes.</p><p>The same pattern is repeated in the family. Violence used to discharge pressure is stored in the child&#8217;s body and mind and returns in later years as a &#8220;natural&#8221; reaction. What has worked remains.</p><p>On a broader scale, insecurity can be reduced by producing the insecurity of another. Violence can be used as an instrument of calming. Here too the logic is the same: the reduction of pressure at one point and its return at another, from one body to other bodies, from inside borders to outside them.</p><p>To follow this process to the end, the example of alcohol can be held. A person is anxious: muscular tension, restlessness, mental rumination. With alcohol the body loosens, the mind slows, and the situation becomes temporarily bearable. This is subsiding. The next day lethargy, low energy, and dullness appear. With repeated use, the body enters the path of dependency and what was a temporary solution becomes a pattern. Anxiety in its initial form has subsided, yet it has returned in the form of need, agitation, and new pressures. This return does not remain at the individual level. Conflict, harmful decisions, or the danger directed toward others are the continuation of the same path. This is not exaggeration for effect; these are the everyday events of the world.</p><p>In many situations suffering is neither so intense that it stops everything nor so mild that it can be ignored. It is in this middle zone that subsiding works. The immediate reduction of pressure is enough for the process to appear successful.</p><p>But the reduction of pressure is not resolution. It is closer to the temporary silencing of a symptom. If this silencing is repeated, it becomes a route. Each time suffering subsides through the same reaction, the distance between suffering and reaction becomes shorter. The reaction is activated sooner and the question is postponed &#8212; to the point where it may not form at all.</p><p>Subsiding often has a reasonable face. It can resemble self-control, staying calm, or managing. For this reason it remains unseen. Calm is experienced as a sign of resolution, not as a sign of postponement.</p><p>What was at first a temporary response, through repetition becomes a pattern &#8212; a pattern that operates without a name and without the need for decision. A significant part of these patterns is formed in the early years of life, through observing and experiencing what reduces pressure.</p><p>In this sense, subsiding and re-pressurizing are not two separate movements. They are a single process occurring simultaneously. What is visible is the decrease of pressure; what remains hidden is the continuation of its movement along other paths.</p><p>As long as this pattern is not seen, each time suffering appears the same route is repeated &#8212; not out of ill will and not out of absolute unawareness, but because this route is the most accessible one.</p><p>The question of this text is how an act that subsides suffering simultaneously activates the path of its re-pressurizing, and how this process, through repetition, passes beyond the individual level and continues in relationships, in other bodies, and in shared fields, without the moment of the reversal of meaning ever being seen.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Preface]]></title><description><![CDATA[Suffering is neither something that can be eliminated nor a condition that can necessarily be reduced.]]></description><link>https://www.wisdorise.com/p/preface</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.wisdorise.com/p/preface</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ally Delshad Tehrani]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 06:21:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!h2hs!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8b7fb24d-c3b2-45cb-8f2d-54310160b2af_450x450.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Suffering is neither something that can be eliminated nor a condition that can necessarily be reduced. This text does not seek to enumerate its harms, nor to extract a benefit from it. Suffering is not to be reduced to a virtue or a vice, neither sanctified nor condemned. The issue is not even to solve something called suffering. What is pursued here is the opening of the problem itself &#8212; holding it before the gaze so that its layers can reveal themselves one after another, and so that what always remains hidden in immediate reactions may become visible.</p><p>Suffering is rarely accompanied by a pause. It appears, and immediately a movement takes shape after it &#8212; a movement that is neither the result of a measured decision nor the outcome of prior reflection, but the natural continuation of the same pressure. It is as if there were no distance between suffering and the response to it, and this absence of distance removes the very possibility of questioning.</p><p>The issue is not to explain suffering, nor to search for its origin. The question is not why we suffer or where it comes from. The question is what happens when suffering becomes present, and whether the possibility of a pause can be kept alive &#8212; a pause in which reaction, for a moment, loses its necessity.</p><p>By suffering is not meant merely physical pain. What is named here as suffering covers a spectrum of states: from bodily pain to anxiety, from longing to boredom, from the sense of insecurity to loss, and even those moments that at first glance do not appear to be suffering &#8212; having too much, or losing something to which we have grown accustomed. In this sense, suffering is not an exception and not a sign of disorder. It is part of lived experience that, sooner or later, imposes itself.</p><p>Before it carries meaning, suffering appears as pressure &#8212; a pressure that does not wait for naming and does not ask for explanation. Just as physical pain forces the body to change its position, suffering sets mind and behavior in motion. This movement is often rapid, in many cases continuous and without interval.</p><p>A living being cannot remain without response to suffering. A sustained non-response is neither a sign of understanding nor of maturity, but closer to a kind of rupture or numbness. Suffering is not made to be ignored. Its role is to disrupt stillness and to activate a chain of responses.</p><p>The responses are, on the surface, different &#8212; eating, sleeping, distraction, silence, withdrawal, anger, aggression. What binds them together is their speed. The mind chooses the shortest and most familiar path, the path that has previously been able to reduce the intensity of the pressure.</p><p>In many situations, suffering is vague. It has no clear location and no specific cause. Anxiety, boredom, persistent fatigue, loneliness, or the interval between two pleasures appear without an obvious sign. This vagueness allows reaction to take the place of questioning, and what is repeated gradually takes on the form of habit.</p><p>From here, patterns are formed. A reaction that once managed to reduce the pressure is repeated. Repetition stabilizes it, and what is stabilized is no longer experienced as a choice. Suffering arrives, and the response is already there.</p><p>Seeing these patterns is not without risk. For what is experienced as &#8220;I&#8221; is, in many cases, nothing but this stabilized chain of reactions. To pause before suffering is not merely to place a distance between a feeling and a behavior, but to open a fissure in a continuity that presents itself as natural and inevitable.</p><p>This text does not seek the elimination of suffering and does not propose a path of liberation from it. The issue is to see these very patterns &#8212; to see the rapid movements that are activated before any question can take shape and that gradually stabilize the course of individual and collective experience. To hold the question at the moment suffering appears, not in order to reach an answer, but to disturb the obviousness that continually takes the place of choice.</p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>